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De m\u00f6nster vi anknyter till n\u00e4ra personer med \u00e4r inl\u00e4rda m\u00f6nster sedan tidiga relationer med f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrarna. Barn vill ha k\u00e4rlek, uppm\u00e4rksamhet och omtanke av f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrarna och anpassar sig f\u00f6r att f\u00e5 s\u00e5 mycket som m\u00f6jligt av det.<\/p>\n
Om det l\u00f6nar sig att trycka ner k\u00e4nslor som r\u00e4dsla och aggressivitet s\u00e5 att barnet f\u00e5r mer positiv bekr\u00e4ftelse om det l\u00e4gger band p\u00e5 k\u00e4nslor s\u00e5 g\u00f6r barnet det.<\/p>\n
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Om det ist\u00e4llet ger mer uppm\u00e4rksamhet ju mer barnet br\u00e5kar , skriker och uttrycker k\u00e4nslor s\u00e5 l\u00e4r det sig att det \u00e4r b\u00e4sta s\u00e4ttet att relatera f\u00f6r att f\u00e5 s\u00e5 mycket som m\u00f6jligt ut av relationer.<\/p>\n
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Anknytningsm\u00f6nstret aktiveras i n\u00e4ra relationer som vuxen. M\u00e5nga \u00e4r trygga i sin anknytning men v\u00e4ldigt m\u00e5nga \u00e4r otrygga.<\/strong><\/p>\n En otrygg-undvikande anknytning kan visa sig i vuxna, n\u00e4ra relationer i former av erektionssvikt, l\u00e5g sexlust, vaginism, f\u00f6rdr\u00f6jd utl\u00f6sning\/orgasm, otrohet, porrmissbruk eller of\u00f6rm\u00e5ga att ta sexuella initiativ. Alla dessa symtom \u00e4r f\u00f6ljden av att man undviker n\u00e4rhet och d\u00e4rmed undviker sex.<\/p>\n En otrygg-undvikande person v\u00e5gar ofta inte uttrycka sina k\u00e4nslor. Aggressivitet, r\u00e4dsla eller sexlust d\u00e4mpas vilket \u00e4r ett undvikande och kan uppfattas som avvisande av partnern. Ist\u00e4llet anv\u00e4nder otrygga-undvikande personer sig mycket av sina tankar, tankel\u00e4ser andra, analyserar och vrider och v\u00e4nder p\u00e5 saker i sitt eget huvud utan att kommunicera.<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.27.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.27.0″ _module_preset=”default” hover_enabled=”0″ global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content” sticky_enabled=”0″]<\/p>\n En otrygg-ambivalent anknytning pr\u00e4glas av ett st\u00e4ndigt bekr\u00e4ftelses\u00f6kande sexuellt som visar sig t ex i stark sexlust, porrmissbruk, sexuell prestations\u00e5ngest och f\u00f6r tidig utl\u00f6sning.<\/p>\n Prestationskraven kan dra ner sexlusten s\u00e5 \u00e4ven en ambivalent person drabbas av sexuell olust eller erektionssvikt. Personer med ambivalent anknytningsm\u00f6nster vill ha hela sin partner mycket av tiden och tar det h\u00e5rt om partnern avvisar. D\u00e5 avvisar han\/hon tillbaka rej\u00e4lt, kanske skriker fula ord eller vill avsluta relationen.<\/p>\n Otrygga-ambivalenta personer lever ut sina k\u00e4nslor, aggressivitet, r\u00e4dsla och sexlust fl\u00f6dar fritt, ibland utan att t\u00e4nka efter f\u00f6re.<\/p>\n I terapin arbetar vi med att synligg\u00f6ra dina anknytningsm\u00f6nster s\u00e5 det g\u00e5r att f\u00f6rst\u00e5 beteendet i nutid. Du f\u00e5r nya verktyg att hitta ett samarbete mellan tanke, k\u00e4nsla och handling.<\/em><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ theme_builder_area=”post_content” _builder_version=”4.27.0″ _module_preset=”default” custom_margin=”0px||||false|false” custom_padding=”0px||||false|false” hover_enabled=”0″ sticky_enabled=”0″][et_pb_row column_structure=”1_2,1_2″ _builder_version=”4.27.0″ _module_preset=”default” hover_enabled=”0″ global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content” sticky_enabled=”0″][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.27.0″ _module_preset=”default” hover_enabled=”0″ global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content” custom_padding=”||||false|false” sticky_enabled=”0″][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/dev.narhetsakuten.se\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/IMG_2216-webb.jpg” _builder_version=”4.27.0″ _module_preset=”default” theme_builder_area=”post_content” title_text=”IMG_2216-webb” hover_enabled=”0″ sticky_enabled=”0″ custom_margin=”-60px||||false|false”][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=”1_2″ _builder_version=”4.27.0″ _module_preset=”default” hover_enabled=”0″ global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content” sticky_enabled=”0″ custom_padding=”3vw||||false|false”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.27.0″ _module_preset=”dd209da2-b310-4e63-bbfc-9e182e413596″ header_5_font=”Cormorant Garamond|700|||||||” header_5_font_size=”20px” header_5_letter_spacing=”0.1em” custom_margin=”||10px||false|false” hover_enabled=”0″ header_5_font_size_tablet=”20px” header_5_font_size_phone=”18px” header_5_font_size_last_edited=”on|phone” global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content” sticky_enabled=”0″]<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.27.0″ _module_preset=”default” hover_enabled=”0″ global_colors_info=”{}” theme_builder_area=”post_content” sticky_enabled=”0″]<\/p>\n Jag har g\u00e5tt min anknytningsutbildning hos Patricia Crittenden och Andrea Landini i Reggio Emilia i Italien.<\/p>\n Utbildningen heter AAI, Adult Attachment Interview och d\u00e4r l\u00e4r de ut hur man kan g\u00f6ra en anknytningsintervju och hur den sedan kodas genom att analysera HUR vi pratar om barndomen och de n\u00e4ra relationerna.<\/p>\n AAI \u00e4r ett s\u00e4kert s\u00e4tt att ta reda p\u00e5 sitt anknytningsm\u00f6nster men det \u00e4r tyv\u00e4rr v\u00e4ldigt tidskr\u00e4vande. Intervjun tar 1,5-2,5 timmar och kodningen tar ca 10 timmar att g\u00f6ra.<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" N\u00e4rhetsakutenAnknytningsm\u00f6nster och sexualitetDe m\u00f6nster vi anknyter till n\u00e4ra personer med \u00e4r inl\u00e4rda m\u00f6nster sedan tidiga relationer med f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrarna. Barn vill ha k\u00e4rlek, uppm\u00e4rksamhet och omtanke av f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrarna och anpassar sig f\u00f6r att f\u00e5 s\u00e5 mycket som m\u00f6jligt av det. 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